Turning Try Into Do

     Well this certainly has been an interesting journey for me. The hardest part for me has been getting past the new age style material. As a Christian I have to have my guard up with this topic so that I don’t cross the line into areas that go against my beliefs. This is not to say that I’m being closed minded. But the Bible does warn us to guard ourselves and so I do. That being said there are still many things I can take away from this class.
     It is clear that there is a connection between a person’s psychological, spiritual and physical wellness. Finding a balance between all three of these aspects will lead to integral health. Of all people health and wellness professionals should understand this concept. They also need to develop these aspects in their own lives so that they can be a testament to their knowledge. This doesn’t mean that H&W professionals are expected to be perfect, but as a child learns from their parents’ lifestyle so will your clients learn from yours. Or at the very least they will see whether or not you practice what you preach. Should a pastor preach about tithing if he does not tithe himself? Should a police officer give a ticket to someone for disobeying the law if they do not obey it their self (not referring to instances where breaking the law in the performance of their duties is legal, i.e. speeding to respond to an emergency, etc.) Should a personal trainer talk about having a regular exercise routine if they do not have one their self? Should a nutrition expert give nutrition advice that they do not follow their self (this does depend on the individual, but humor me, you get the idea). Have you noticed a bit of an ethical dilemma? This health and wellness field is not about getting a pay check, although that is an essential part of any job (unless you’re a millionaire). It’s about helping people. To truly help others we need to be seeking integral health in our own lives. It’s one thing to have knowledge and another to have personal experience. It’s one thing to say, this is what I read in a textbook, and another to say, this is what works for me.
     For me personally, I still need to work on all aspects of my health. Specifically as I have mentioned before I need to work on consistency. I want to study my Bible every day, but can I honestly say that I do it? I want to work out on a regular basis, but as of this moment I’m still working on that too. I want to eat a clean diet, but I still allow unhealthy foods when I’m in a pinch (which has been far too often this semester!). It’s time to put excuses aside and practice what I preach. Only then will I be able to help others as a health and wellness professional. Yoda said it best: Do or do not. There is no try.
    Using a 1-10 scale I would rate my spiritual wellness at a 6, my physical wellness at a 4, and my psychological wellness at a 7 or 8. My spiritual health would be much higher if I would spend more time reading God’s word and praying. I, like so many others, am easily distracted by literally every other thing. I really need to focus on making it a priority above all else as it should be. My physical wellness I rated low because my weight and bad knees are holding me down. Internally I am apparently in very good health, but I don’t often feel like it because I am weighed down...literally! When I finally succeed in reaching a more appropriate weight for my body I will feel so much better and so will my knees, though eventually I will need knee surgery. Psychologically I’m actually doing quite well. I try and keep my stress as low as possible and have been really working on my anger management skills. But some things such as the finances of student life are beyond my control. Right now I am faced with the dilemma of summer in which my husband’s GI Bill benefits will temporarily stop coming in. We’ve been depending on the housing/cost of living stipend that he gets as our main source of income. We’ve both recently started working but its only low paying part time jobs that aren’t going to cover our expenses. I’ll be lucky if both jobs cover our rent alone at this point. We still have to sit down and try and estimate what we will both be making since he’ll be working more hours though. This situation could easily overwhelm me if I let it. But I choose to put my trust in God! Here’s one of my favorite verses to read when I am stressed (I even have a tapestry of a portion of it hanging on my bathroom wall).

Matthew 6:26-34

New King James Version (NKJV)

²⁶ Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? ²⁷ Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?

²⁸ “So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; ²⁹ and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. ³⁰ Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?

³¹ “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ ³² For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. ³³ But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. ³⁴ Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+6%3A26-34&version=NKJV

     One goal that I have for my spiritual wellness is to consistently study the Bible and pray every single day. One of my goals for my physical wellness is to exercise for no less than a half an hour (preferably an hour) at least 5 days a week. And lastly one of my goals for my psychological wellness is to meditate on a scripture verse every day. I know this might sound like it should be in the spiritual wellness category but for me it’s not. Meditating on a specific scripture reduces my stress and puts me in the right state of mind leaving me more patient, kind, loving, etc.
      It can be helpful to implement strategies to assist us in meeting our wellness goals. For my spiritual health one strategy I can use is to deny myself access to the TV or such distractions until I have spent time studying God’s word and praying. Another strategy is not to study randomly, but to go into it with a plan. Purchasing Bible study materials can be helpful and I’ve done this many times in the past. They help keep me motivated and interested and I always do very well when I have them. I have several lined up already to use and am currently doing a study on Daniel.
      For my physical wellness a strategy that I have used in the past and plan on implementing again is to get a dry erase board and write on it a weekly or monthly workout schedule with my goals, stats, and a motivational quote. Every time I work out I cross that day out on the calendar. Another strategy I have used and been successful with in the past is to prepare healthy meals on the weekend (Sunday) for the upcoming week. That way I don’t have any excuses to not eat healthfully.
      For my psychological wellness category as I previously mentioned one exercise I would like to start doing is meditation. It’s different than Bible study and prayer time. I would use it similarly to the relaxation exercises that we have been using in class. I actually want to implement two strategies to help with this. The first is to put specific verses on 3x5 cards and each week I will pick out one of the verses and carry it with me everywhere looking at it as often as I can. The second strategy is that I’m actually thinking about making up my own relaxation/visualization exercises that go along with my beliefs, because I haven’t found one yet that I like. Who knows maybe I’ll end up putting some up on YouTube. You never know! There is a lot of calming music/sound effects that I like. I think it would be pretty easy to come up with a script for a Biblical based visualization exercise and then record it with some calming background music. Sounds like a plan to me!
     I definitely want to fully commit to these plans. As far as the spiritual and psychological progress is concerned if I truly implement my plan I will see drastic improvement without question. I will need to remain consistent and continue to challenge myself so that I will continue to grow. These are never areas that you can perfect as we are imperfect beings. But we can become stronger and more stable. We can become leaders instead of followers. We can run instead of crawl...you get the idea. The same is true for the physical aspect with the addition of assessment tools. I have a hand held device that tells me what my BMI and body fat percentages are. I use it monthly to check my progress along with a scale. It’s not about the scale though; it’s about how I feel and honestly what size of close I can fit into. LOL. A size 6-9 (depending on the brand) is my goal. As far as strategies to maintain these practices, as I mentioned earlier we need to always be challenging ourselves that way we don’t hit a plateau or get board and let it fall by the wayside. You may think you’re healthy but you can always be healthier in all aspects of your life! I wish each and every one of you success in all of your goals whether they are educational, spiritual, physical or psychological. God Bless!